A second opinion is not doubt. It is diligence.
For a serious diagnosis or major surgery, good doctors expect you to ask. Here is how.
Want help getting ready for one? Second Opinion Preparation, $249. A doctor reads your records and writes your question list.
When to get one
A new cancer diagnosis, before treatment starts. Any major, irreversible surgery. A rare disease. A treatment not working after a fair trial. And the quiet one: when your questions get waved away. In studies of major-center second opinions, the plan is refined or changed in a meaningful share of cases.
How to ask
Say it plainly: "This is a big decision and I want to get it right. I would like a second opinion. Could your office share my records?" Doctors hear this weekly. You do not need permission; the records are yours by right.
What to bring
The pathology report above all for cancer. Imaging with the radiologist reports, not just the discs. Recent labs, consultation and operative notes, a current medication list. Ask the records office for the last year. The file is the biggest thing you control.
What to ask
What exactly is the diagnosis, and how certain? What are all the reasonable options, including waiting? What does each look like in a year? What would you advise your own family? Write them down.
Second Opinion Preparation
A doctor reads your records before you meet, spends 30 minutes helping you understand the diagnosis and the usual options, and writes the brief and question list you take into the real consultation. $249. Education and preparation; the examining specialist stays yours.
- Your records reviewed beforehand
- 30 minutes to weigh the options
- A written brief for your next doctor
- Two follow-up questions included